被爱，幸福吗？

昨天　看了看[针锋相对］

主题的序

[有人说，爱人比较幸福，

因为至少你掌握主动权；

有人则说，被爱比较幸福，

因为能得到别人的爱，

等同于获得别人的肯定、尊重，甚至是崇拜。

若两情无法相悦，

在爱与被爱之间，你选择哪一样？

被爱，幸福吗？]


我不确定。。。

爱人吧　

有趣的话题。


节目完结时

主持人引用了巴金写在[怀念萧珊]*的一段序言

我只记得。。每夜每夜

骨灰盒。。。。。。什么的。。什么的。。（哈哈哈）～忘了

字里行间透着的是对妻子的思恋　

巴金那时也有八十好几了吧？！


主持人问

[那应该是爱情吗?]

。。。没人答。。。

主持人总结

[其实，爱情和幸福到了一个时候

已经完全分不清分界线了。]


我想哦　应该是

爱情和‘亲情’到了一个时候

已经完全分不清分界线了。


向往


亲情永远比爱情来得踏实些

可是要等爱情升华成亲情

那是需要多少在一起的时间和经历

才能到得了的？？

Kings of Convenience

I have recently fallen deeply in love with Kings of Convenience.
I came upon KOC from a compilation album I bought recently.
[The Best Acoustic Album In The World... Ever!]
I love compilation cd. It is the best and fastest way to be introduced to different artists.

月亮忘记了

记住的，是不是永远不会消失
我守护如泡沫般碎弱的梦境
快乐才剛开始　
悲伤却早巳灒伏而来

quote from / jimmy, 月亮忘记了

Hermit Crab

I was browsing the web for crab images and came arcoss this lovely creature, The Hermit Crab.
What fascinated me most is their make up and habit.....
An extract I took from the web
The hermit crab is a type of crab that doesn't have a very hard shell. Not a true crab, it uses other animals' old shells for protection; they especially like old whelk shells. As the hermit crab grows in size, it must find a larger shell. ..

How cool is that. Changing appearance in different point of life. Some of them has really odd choice of shell making them really weird. But it also make them really stand out. I wondered who gave them the name "Hermit". A wonderer who goes from one place to another. So noble.

The chinese name is 寄居蟹 which is very close to their nature. borrowing someone shelter to live in. =)

太聪明

我总以为你一般难懂的我
在你了解了以后
其实也没什么
我总是忽冷又忽热
隐藏我的感受
只是怕爱你的心被你看透
猜的没错想得太多
不会有结果
被你看穿了以后
我更无处可躲
我开始后悔不应该太聪明的卖弄
只是怕亲手将我的真心葬送
我猜中你的心
遥远的距离都是因为太过聪明
我猜中你的心
要再一次决定
缓慢的思绪都是因为太想靠近你

Has been listening to her song for the past 1 week.
I almost turn my whole blog in to a Cheer's lryics blog liao.
Like the way she writes the lyrics.
The way her song is compose.
Telling a story with her lyrics.
It is really simiple and plan
But really close to heart.
But often,
I feel more 落寞 after listen to her....ha ha ha
That grey Thursday i blogged,
I was listening to her song the whole day.
It is the same when I watch that Musical "Subway"
with her as the main lead
It is kind of sad,
but with a glint of hope here and there.